Read this story please… You’ll be amazed at who attended this man’s funeral.  


Days before he was to move into apartment, Indy man dies alone, under a bridge. Wes Cunningham had no place to call home, but he had a family.  Check out this story on IndyStar.com: http://indy.st/1RrJkOv 

  

Labels mask the fullness of a human’s spirit. Wes wasn’t homeless – with “no place to call home,” in my opinion. If home is where the heart is, then the city streets were his home and many were his neighbors. Regrettable as his passing is, he clearly lived his life with intention and passion. Though he died alone, his loss was felt by many. Isn’t that how most of want to be remembered in the end!?

Fortunately, someone chose to tell Wes’ story. He died on the same weekend that Denver Hutt lost her battle with cancer. Her life and impact on Indianapolis were also celebrated in the news. Gladly, the media allowed us to learn of and appreciate how both of these leaders were an “inspiring example of how people can change the community when they are willing to engage and get their hands dirty” (from the article about Denver Hutt)…labels or not.

When we label someone “homeless” just because they choose to have another type of home than the rest of us, we run the risk of missing their full beauty, potential and gifts (as the term often comes with much prejudice, stigma and/or shame). Even when some may not have as much direct say in their living conditions, it still doesn’t do them justice to label them “homeless.”  

So be honest – would you have imagined this funeral turnout for a “homeless person” (hate that term)? 

“Smile at strangers. Be kind. Judge less. And hold the door.”
~ Denver Hutt, 2016

Sounds like Denver and Wes would have been good friends…

A Good Lie: How History Repeats Itself, Sometimes With Better Outcomes! Welcome “Lost Hoosiers of Syria…”


We watched a movie from 2014 last night that seemed so timely it was unreal. Here is the movie synopsis for “The Good Lie” from IMDB:

“A group of Sudanese refugees given the chance to resettle in America arrive in Kansas City, Missouri, where their encounter with an employment agency counselor forever changes all of their lives.”

The movie takes place in the Fall of 2001, just months after 9/11. The group of “lost boys” who settle in Kansas City were on the last plane out of Sudan before the US closed its Sudanese resettlement program because of fears that terrorists would find gaps in the program’s security and use it as a way to cross the US’ borders and unleash terrorism on our citizens.

Despite the political rhetoric and racist fearmongering, the movie tells the story of four orphaned children, who watched their entire family being massacred during their country’s bitter civil war.

“Consequently, they make an arduous and dangerous trek through the plains, enduring hardship, death and sacrifice all the way until they reach safety in a refugee camp in Ethiopia. Years later, these youths are among 3600 selected for resettlement in America… [They] must adjust to an alien culture even as the emotional baggage of their past haunts them. However, these newcomers, and their new friends . . . strive to understand each other in this new home, as they make peace with their histories in a challenge that will change all their lives.

 

This movie “unfolded” about events over a decade ago that I probably didn’t fully understand or appreciate at the time in the backdrop of 9/11. But, as if the universe wanted to flaunt the timely irony, these are the news stories from yesterday about events in the world, the US and nay, even our [great] State of Indiana:

“Gov. Pence suspends resettlement of Syrian refugees to Indiana following Paris terror attacks…”  [read more]

Unlike the suspension in 2001, it seems like some of us have learned our lesson, and are willing to challenge the government’s authority (or lack of authority) to act irrationally “in the name of public safety” (read: institutionalized racism and bigotry):

“Defying the governor, Indianapolis archbishop takes in Syrian refugees…” [read more]

I won’t even acknowledge the crap that ex-President-hopeful Donald Trump spewed…  Instead, I look forward to the following IMDB movie synopsis:

“A group of Syrian refugees given the chance to resettle in America arrive in Indianapolis, IN where their encounter with Hoosier Hospitality forever changes all of their lives. They must adjust to an alien culture and a racist Governor even as the emotional baggage of their past haunts them. However, these newcomers, and their new friends . . . strive to understand each other in this new home, as they make peace with their histories in a challenge that will change all their lives.

Fortunately, for the “Lost Hoosiers of Syria,” our State’s Archbishop may have learned a lesson from “The Good Lie.”  Like my own church (Broadway United Methodist), some Hoosiers haven’t given into fear but have instead chosen hope, compassion and hospitality:

Keep telling the story…

Remembering our saints…Graham Karwath


At Broadway UMC, we celebrate All Saint’s Day (November 1) by remembering friends and family who died during the prior year. We have a collection of candles and candelabras at the front of the sanctuary that members light in memory of someone.  It’s a beautiful way to keep their stories alive – to keep their memories with us. In doing so, they continue to be a part of our lives.  For me, it also brings to a close that first year of mourning.  While the loss and hole in our hearts never fully heal, I’m finding it’s a lot easier to move on after the “year of firsts.”

Lighting candles on All Saint's Day
Lighting candles on All Saint’s Day
All Saint's Day at Broadway UMC
All Saint’s Day at Broadway UMC

 

Two years ago, we included my mom and grandmother in our All Saint’s Day celebration. This year, we remembered by friend Graham Karwath.

Remember Our Saints: Graham Karwath
Remember Our Saints: Graham Karwath

 

Graham was a loyal friend – to me and many others in his life.  He always “had my back,” and helped me through some tough times by listening, caring and telling my story. In turn, the trust we built over the years allowed him to open up about some of the life struggles he faced.

Graham was full of life. He loved music, loved to dance and loved to goof off. He was a hard worker, which was recognized by his co-workers and boss. He was always willing to take an extra shift or work late to help out the team. He was confident, but vulnerable; strong, but like many of us, hurt; full of joy, but knew his time here was limited. Despite his fatal heart condition, he didn’t dwell on his health but chose instead to live in the moment and enjoy life to the fullest.

Another part of our All Saint’s Day service is to list those we remember in the bulletin. The choir then takes those names and weaves them into a hymn of celebration and remembrance. Here is an audio clip of this year’s song.  You’re not forgotten, Graham… (Graham is mentioned at 1:25 in this song of prayer)

https://soundcloud.com/ctoddcreations/all-saints-day-2015-for-graham-karwat

(I previously wrote a short version of this post on SoundCloud, but recently realized I hadn’t finished my thoughts…so here is the updated version via by blog…)